...before you move in, get engaged or get married is the subject of an article in July's Cosmopolitan. Well, way to go Cosmo! When I was looking for advice three months ago when the B.F. and I were discussing our future -- where the hell were you? So, since I already made the plunge, I guess it can't hurt to take the quiz.
Q-Am I moving in with him mainly to get distance from my parents or to prove that I'm an adult?
Answer -- Hell no. I proved to my parents I was an adult at age 12, when I found the house in the paper that they still live in.
Q-Was this decision prompted because it makes life more convenient or is a great financial deal?
Answer -- No and No. He's in advertising...that's not where the money is.
Q-Can I tolerate his daily habits?
Answer -- It should be the other way around...can he tolerate my daily habits?
Q-How will we merge our decorating tastes? Do either of us have items that we are not willing to give up?
Answer -- See previous post. He has this hideous chair that I can't wait to pitch as soon as I get the chance.
Q-Do I feel relaxed enough around him to reveal my flaws?
Answer -- I have none. Next question!
Q-Have we discussed duties? Who cleans and when? Or have we agreed to hire someone?
Answer -- I haven't lifted a finger! I think I've checked the mail once! Who needs a maid when you have a neat, organized and obsessive compulsive B.F.!
Q-Am I prepared to have someone always in my space?
Answer -- Yes, but not someone who likes to lock me out of the apartment on purpose and fucks with me when I'm on the phone.
Q-What do our recurring fights tend to be about? Do we believe that cohabiting will help fix those habits?
Answer -- He gets mad because I'm always right..duh..girls always are. Maybe I will rub of on him...
Q-Am I hoping this will lead to our getting engaged? If so, does he know that and share the goal of marriage?
Answer -- I think I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.
I think I did pretty well on this quiz. Not bad for my first one.